I consider myself like you Minstrel...but...I am married with children!!...how could this possibly have happened!?

Simple realy....I fell in love at 12 y/o with a 10 y/o LG...and followed this relationship right through 15 years till we got married. We fell out a few times, and I knew that if we didn't get back together, I would NEVER EVER have another girlfriend, as I was just NOT interested.

I could still see the LG in her as we grew older...oh...it was a 'pitty' when those ugly chest bulges and that grose black stuff started to appear..but.. she WAS a late developer...so that helped.

I know one thing for sure...she has no problem with me chasing 'other women'! ( and NEVER will have )

No..you are definetly NOT alone Minstrel.