Hi Feu Noir,
I unfortunately somehow have to agree that right now, I personally don't think it's a really good idea to tell a therapist, even though normally I would maybe recommend them for certain things;
However, I understand that you need to talk to someone about this.
I personally talked to therapists (notice the "s") about this, all of them tried to either convince me to change or stop having "thoughts" like that, which is totally stupid, and of course, all of them totally, and always ignored my views in the end.
For my experiences, they always have THE LAST WORD.
One even told me afterwards that she now refers the people "like us" to other ones because she doesn't know what to do with us! lol
Only one sexologist I met once for who I've had very interesting conversations with, it happens that he himself has gone, and is still going through what we are somehow "going through"...
Generally they don't respect your right for your beliefs and visions, which is a basic human right by the way, and they try to convince you by every means they have that you're either:

sick
somehow immature sexually
somehow a bad person
you're in a state of deny
and I could go on...

They will also say "if you don't want to admit you have a problem we cannot help you", which I simply think this is somehow BIG mental manipulation to have things their way.
And yes they can tell on you. It happened to me.
Please read the thread I started a few days ago called "A facts page" on this forum.
I am working on a page like that to denounce all of this.
I hope it will be on the net soon.

However, like I said, you somehow feel the need to talk to someone about this.
I hope you can find someone with an open mind, and one here also suggested an online therapist...
I have no idea who's that therapist so I can't say if I would recommend this or not, however one thing that could be good is if you can stay totally anonymous while talking and/or contacting that therapist.
Otherwise, be very carefull.

Anyhow, in general I would say therapists are a big NONO for that matter unfortunately, right now...
They say to open our minds in what they are saying, but they will not open theirs to OUR sayings.
They back themselves up with their so-called "expertise" and clinical experience.
They say not to see only one side of it (ours), meaning that for us looking at websites like this one here is dangerous for entertaining our "inappropriate thoughts", when they themselves are entertaining only their points of view, so somehow, they're the ones who are mostly doing this, because most of us here will admit that yes there can be horrible things that can happen to young people, however we don't just see THAT side of things.
They usually do.
It's either black or white, period.
(Or not far from that...)
At least for the court it is!
And they say that if you think the way I'm saying right now, you are in a state of deny, it's automatic, almost a fashion nowadays, which leaves nothing for our visions and/or beliefs.
This is dangerous, it's called dogmatism, you see that in closed sects, where you can't even decide for yourself what is good for you or not, when others decide for you.
Looks like it's not only in the sects huh?...

Sorry for those therapists out there who could be reading this.
Maybe not all of them are like that, but for what I've seen so far, hmm...
This has to stop.
We somehow have the right in expressing ourselves without fear for our opinions (see article #19 of the human rights chart), and our very BASIC RIGHT for our BELIEFS and visions, and it's not being respected at all right now.
As you can see in this thread, I am VERY mad about what I went through in the last few years, and what is going on right now, and want to do something about this.
I'll let you all know when the page I'm working on will be available.
You will also be able to add to the page if you want.
Later, and I give my

Love2uall