Sorry - I don't know how to make the quotes bold!

"are you happy you are a pedophile: is it ok to call you that"

It's something I struggled with for a very long time but now I'm far more secure in my identity so, for the moment at least, yes. I'm not sure "happy" is really the right word but I'm content. By all means, call me whatever you like :-)

"have any mental health problems"

Yes. I have quite serious depression (having a good phase at the moment)and occasional delusions. I know this sounds like I'm crazy but I'm just being honest. Most of the time I'm absolutely fine :-)

"if you are very mentally healthy: do you think that this is just a very ..personal choice that a very unpersonal world doesnt overwelmingly accept"

I wouldn't claim to be "very mentally healthy" but I don't think attraction to young girls is a choice, I think it is an orientation like homosexuality. I think there's a long way to go before the majority of the population accept this.

"how low ...hehe, do you go? i mean if 4...is what ive read is a pop age start of..being attracted do most people think that 16 is the only age anyone should ever have sex...im not sure i hear no one telling me. limited"

Generally I start to find girls attractive once they've stopped looking like a toddler, generally around 4-6 depending on the girl. On the whole, the girls I tend to form romantic attatchments/fascinations with are around 8 or 9.

"understand me i mean you are atttracted to a 4 year old and above, i know you dont have sex or hope not for you know legal reasons ...but you maybe fantasize or maybe you do so about older girls"

To be honest, I'm more in to romance than actual sex. Various people who know about my attractions have teased me that if the law were changed tomorrow and the age of consent dropped to 5, all I'd really want to do is hold hands :-) Occasionally I find very young teenagers attractive, if they still have a little girl face or dress in a young way but this is quite unusual.

"do you accept a world around you that would accept 4 or older girls having sex? would you feel right at home, if a couple"hypothetically" a i dont know 7 yr old or 10 yr old and a 18 year old were wwalking hand in hand and let you know they were a sexual couple" hypothetically""

Depends how you're defining "sex".

"does that feel alright with you? isnt their wierdness ..or was there ever...when you were younger??"

Sorry, not quite sure what you mean?

"i know it ranges in here in age from teens to late adults so i guess i hope ill get some good feedback"

Glad to be of service :-)

ill check this msg, but cant be certain it will be soon

"do you think of under 18 people as adults?
would you refer to them as sir or madam? perhaps discuss adult things"hypthetically", its probably illegal to chat with younger people about certani things maybe....im not sayinng do that but im wondering if you would feel comfortable doing that"

I'd probably discuss whatever THEY wanted to discuss. I've worked with lots of children and young people and they can be very deep thinkers - far more than most adults give them credit for. Generally, when talking to people, I try not to draw a distinction between child and adult, I just think of them as people.

"are you in touch with yourself ,who you were, when you were growing up?"

More so now than I used to be, largely due to the last year or so of being able to honestly discuss my thoughts and feelings.

"did you lose any of that- i think i did."

Only a little :-)

"im old"

I'm getting older every day ;-)

"i think i would like to regain those youthful mental freedoms unrestricted heart in motion"

I like to think I never lost them.

"are you like me? are you old."

I'm 26.

"are you a good person? i hope its ok to ask all of this."

I hope so but I often don't believe it - people keep telling me I'm good though. It's fine to ask these things, it's nice to be able to discuss it.

"i dont see why not its not wrong"

"thank you"

You're welcome :-)

"may the light lead your way,"

And you :-)

"bienvenue"

:-)