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Re: are you happy with yourself? (and.. more)

Posted by Tamachan on Saturday, March 03 2007 at 0:29:18PM
In reply to are you happy with yourself? (and.. more) posted by quartzbuddy on Thursday, March 01 2007 at 10:57:12PM

I wasn't going to answer these questions, but upon reflecting on the other answers you got, I think I will chime in with my two cents.

The reason I wasn't going to answer you was because all of these seem like very slanted questions, coming from a place where you seeem to be looking for us to defend ourselves for who we are. I really have no interest in defending who I am, because as far as I am concerned, there is nothing to defend. Maybe that sounds arrogant, but I can't be asked to defend something I can't change about myself.

That being said, on to the answers to your "questions"...


1) Are you happy you are a pedophile: is it ok to call you that

I have come to terms with it. The best way to say it is that I am at peace with being a Paedophile, because I realized that I can't change it.

2) Have any mental health problems?

Nothing clinical. I've had panic attacks, I've been depressed, and as a teen I had major problems with anger issues... but after going through a very difficult year, I have emerged an almost bizzarely calm person.

2B) If you are very mentally healthy: do you think that this is just a very ..personal choice that a very unpersonal world doesnt overwelmingly accept?

No, it isn't a choice. Author Susan Kay put it best in her adaption of The Phantom of the Opera: "No one can choose where they love." It's that simple.

3) How low ...hehe, do you go?

Depends on the person, but I have been attracted to the odd 4 year old, there's even the occaisional nearly-three year old who was quite beautiful. I most recently fell completely in love with a girl when she was 6. Most girls I develop real feelings for are around 7-10, although both the girls I genuinely fell in love with were outside this range.

4) Do you accept a world around you that would accept 4 or older girls having sex?

Penetration should be illegal if the child will be physically hurt by the act. That being said, I don't think society really knows much about wether or not penetration will or will not hurt a child... for obvious reasons.


5) Would you feel right at home, if a couple"hypothetically" a i dont know 7 yr old or 10 yr old and a 18 year old were wwalking hand in hand and let you know they were a sexual couple "hypothetically"

anyone who is bothered by an 18 year old, someone who can't even drink or enter a casino in my juristiction, walking hand in hand with a 7 year old need a dose of perspective. It wouldn't bother me, even if they were a couple - why would it?

7) Do you think of under 18 people as adults?
would you refer to them as sir or madam?

No, they aren't adults, but that doesn't mean that they are less deserving of respect than an adult. Children in this society are given less rights than our pets. That ain't cool. I don't think I would call them sir or madam though, because that would be treating them with respect, it would be like saying that they should be adults.

8) Do you perhaps discuss adult things "hypthetically", its probably illegal to chat with younger people about certain things maybe....im not sayinng do that but im wondering if you would feel comfortable doing that?

Last time I checked, it was not illegal to discuss anything with anyone. One time, a girl I saw a couple times a year asked if I loved her, so that was a pretty "typically adult" conversation.

9) Are you in touch with yourself, who you were, when you were growing up?

I already mentioned that very difficult year. The only way I got out of that year alive is because I learned a lot about who I was. So, as a result, I am more in touch with myself than most people.

10) Did you lose any of that- i think i did.

I lost a lot of my identity when I fell in love with the first girl, who was 11 at the time. I put everything I was into that relationship, and when it ended, I was literally left without knowing who I was. So I had to rediscover all that, and it was a long and difficult journey.

11) Are you like me? are you old.

No, I'm 25. But I've lived a lot during those years.

12) Are you a good person?

I'm probably biased, but I would tend to think so. Kids are an excellent judge of character, and they seem to think I'm an okay guy.





tamachan





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