Hi, Unregistered Poster here

This is a general post to respond to some points that seem to appear in most of your posts. I intend to answer all your posts one by one too.

First of all, I want to thank you all for your time and your answers. You didn't have to but you helped me a lot and I can say I know understand things I had REALLY wrong before. Special thanks to NFiH for putting up with me and being so kind.

Some of you may be asking yourselves, "Hey, if she didn't want to have anything to do with us, why is she here now?" I'm gonna quote my own e-mail: "I know I said I didn't want to register a nick and that I just
> wanted my answers and never come back but... the thing is the people
> there have made some interesting points I'd love to answer, plus I
> want to say thanks to all of them... You're probably thinking: "Kid,
> make up your mind already!" by now *I know I would* but... do you
> think I could register a nick there to answer my thread? I'm not
> probably gonna stay active on the board but those men took their
> time to answer me and they deserve my gratitude." And you deserve it WAY more than I deserved your answers. Thank you once more.

I also want to say I'm sorry if you didn't like some of my words. Some things may have sound way better in my head and in my own language than here, translated the best I could. I have to admit I was biased, but you know that everybody who hasn't talked to you and doesn't share your feelings is biased, we're so used to think "pedophile = child molester" that we don't realise that "pedophile = child lover" and "child molester = psycho". I have to say, though, that I didn't insult any of you *or, at least, I think I didn't, correct me if I'm wrong, please* and that I don't really appreciate being called hysterical, irrational, paranoid and unoriginal bigot, just to quote one post. I'm sorry but attacking people like that is not the best way to make them understand you're as normal as they are *which I'm sure you are* I came here for answers, and I found a lot I didn't know, but that's because people were kind enough to educate me and correct me when I was wrong. I learnt nothing from the attacks.

The thing that shocked me the most was how STUPID I was for not realising this was about love and not just sex. I'm sorry I threw you all in the same sack with selfish people who just want to pleasure themselves without thinking about the ones they're hurting. Now I can see it's not like that and, by doing it, it was like comparing a normal straight guy with a sick rapist. Your "hey, thanks for wanting to understand" made me cry. By comparing you with those psychos, you're denied of basic human rights and that's SO unfair I can't even understand how you can live with such unjustice.

I had never heard about "situational offenders" before. After some of you told me about them, I researched the term and understood that they're the ones that scare me, the sick selfish pricks, not some guy that says "I respect the law and just listening to a LG giggling makes me happy" *not quoting anyone here, just the general feeling your posts left in me*, who deserves all my respect. I'm happy to see how you care for those kids and I really can relate to those feelings, I have to admit that little girls are love. I still can't relate to the attraction, though, not my thing! XD

I have to say I still don't like the idea of kids that young on a relationship, but the motivation is different now. It's not just the adult-child relationship but the child-child relationship too. This has nothing to do with laws and stuff like that, it's just my opinion. Love is SO complex and, sometimes, it hurts SO bad *and I'm not talking about abusive relationships, but normal things like "I like him but he likes my friend" or "the relationship is over because there's no love left"* that I wish they could spend as much time as possible without knowing about it! Playing with My Little Ponies was soooo much better than those endless afternoons waiting by the phone! As I said, this has nothing to do with the issue at hand, but nobody likes to see the ones they love hurting,and kids nowadays start complicating their lifes too soon! And my niece is not a teen yet, that's gonna be horrible... *looks at future* *headdesks*

Now I'm gonna re-read all your posts and comment all the interesting points I saw individually. Thanks for reading this *once again* long post.