i agree with u.

i was also quite suprised in this persons very dramatic change, in a short time. yes, some of the replies to her first post were very good, but this does seem strange to me. someone does not go from total fear and no understanding to all of a sudden total acceptance of us. it seems as if she wants to be our best friend now.

but, like u, i think we should give people the benefit of the doubt until they give us a reason to not believe them. so, i will keep reading and see what she has to say.

thank u for making this post, these things needed to be said here. i suspect we are not the only ones who were thinking this.

rabit