Re: Come out to your children, do or don't ?

From my own experience, a child being told by their parent that they are pedophiles isn't really all that of "OH MY , YOU ARE A MONSTER DADDY ". Children unless taught that Adult - Child relations are apparently bad are accepting and even have no reaction to it

Children arn't born with the though that adult-child relationships are bad and immoral it's something society tries to teach them

However to answer your question, I don't think you should share this information with her, that is depending on her age which you have not specifically mentioned. In todays world it is not fair for a child to have to hear that her parent or role model figure is an apparently bad man

Unless there are exceptional circumstances I think this is a case by case scenario, and ultimately you should try and make the right one

Just ask yourself a few questions

Why do you want to tell her?
What are the benefits for you and her ?
Is it really going to change things for the better?

Just my opinion and I know it sounds a little bit contradictory but as I said it's a case by case thing