Re: What is really going on?

Hi Brudda. And welcome. I really did love your previous post about your experience. It is of immense help to us in trying to understand another side of this complex situation we find ourselves in.

I am not aware of short versions for what you outlined, btw.

As for me, I am in love. I want her to be happy, to spend time with her, and being intimate with her would be like heaven, beyond imagination. However, with what you have said I am glad we never got that far, and going forward, as much as I want it, I feel i would have to refrain. Although, perhaps intimacy doesn't need to involve sex?

Anyway. There are no easy answers here. We are all just collectively trying to cope with our orientation and find our place in the world.