Re: What is really going on?

Some of the guys here post about just loving little girls and wanting them to be happy, some post about basically just wanting them.

Well, desiring a body rather than a person is, imho, creepy.

Not wrong by itself. Just creepy.

Could I please get a brief description of why this happens, and how "far" is too far with a little girl?

I haven't seen the pattern you mention. However, yes, occasionally some wars erupt between the pro- and anti- contact camps, but there haven't been any about this subject for a little bit more than a year. There've been about other subjects, and my fave flame subject, personally, is circumcision. But others prefer incest, religion, abortion, death penalty, outing people, or kiddie pron.

It happens because we're all different. We have some things in common, like all humans do, but we also have other things in which we differ.

There is no specific rule limitation as to the positions you can hold - however, you cannot admit to any potentially illegal activities, as defined, afaik, under either of American, Canadian and British law, and which have not been through the legal system of the relevant jurisdiction. This means, in short, that unless you've served the time, you cannot say that you have or had sexual contact with minors. But that is not the same as censorship of opinions.

As for how far is too far, you'll get as many answers as there are posters.

Mine would be that there is no such thing as a priori "too far". The only things that would put something in the "too far" range, to me, would be a) she says it's too far or b) significant risk of physical injury. Short of that, nothing is "too far" (in a philosophical sense anyway - in a legal sense there certainly exists a "too far")