You don't get it...

If someone consents to being bossed around and humilated by a girl because he enjoys it, then there is no harm done by either party as both sides benefit and there is no way you can conclude her actions in that instance would be the same for another instance where there was no consent from the other person. In other words, if a girl acts bossy toward someone because she knows he enjoys it then that does not mean she will act the same way toward someone who doesn't enjoy it. At last, you've taken things out of proper context. You've taken my sexual fantasies to mean that I would enjoy taking shit on a day-to-day reality basis from someone as long as they are pretty. That is not true.