To clarify a bit...

...when I said the word "fetish" was bereft of emotional responses what I meant was that there is NO emotional interest in the target of the fetish. It's purely sexual. I think there is a GRAVE difference between a GLer and a child or teen fetishist, and when you have met both types of people you see this difference very clearly. It's not about a "stereotype." It's about a phenotype, and it definitely exists. This is why the fetishists insist that GLer's are no different from them...they project their purely sexual feelings and motivations onto us.