Re: What is really going on?

I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone who's drunk, I can't imagine it being a positive experience. I don't think any of us are non-sexual (asexual) but some of us made a moral choice not to have sex with those who are underage, they're often called non-contact. Those who advocate this belief to others, or say that everyone else should be this way, are often called anti-contact. Those with the opposing views that either they personally will have sex with minors (I think stating so is against board rules) or think it's a good idea if it weren't for society's feelings about the matter, are called pro-contact. It's a very controversial matter on this board.
Usually, going 'too far' means breaking the law or doing something that's likely to lead to involvement of authorities. I wouldn't hang out at a playground to look at girls because I'd be noticed, and making parents uncomfortable/getting the cops called on me outweigh the pleasure of ogling, which can be done elsewhere anyway.

I presume you wouldn't let your own child have a sexual relationship with an adult because of your personal experiences. I wonder what precisely you would forbid; just coitus, or any genital stimulation? What about cuddling? Or maybe you mean a romantic relationship period? What if you knew your child wasn't just trying to please his/her partner and actually desired intimacy or stimulation? These aren't rhetorical questions, I'd like to hear your answers.