More clarifications

I said in my post that I do not scorn fetishists for having a strictly sexual interest in young people. However, judging by all of the fetishists that I have met, they obviously leave something to be desired. For one thing, they project their strictly sexual interest onto genuine GLer's and they insist that ALL of us should stay away from kids because ALL of us only have a sexual interest and that all of the emotional and spiritual interest we (truthfully) say we have is simply "fooling ourselves." They tend to have a very negative attitude towards their sexual desires and they also tend to be virulently anti-contact. This is the main reason I haven't warmed up to any of them.

On the other hand, it seems that you haven't been reading a lot of my posts clearly. In the past, I have stated NUMEROUS times that there is NOTHING wrong with an adult and a youth who have a strictly sexual interest in each other to have a good time with each other, for no other reason to experience some physical pleasure. If done safely with mutual respect, it can be a positive experience for both people. I DO NOT agree with the sex=bad, love-is-always-good-and-pure crowd, and I have had conflicts with people of that ideology whenever they have appeared here. I have stated numerous times before that love has its dark side, too, and that a sexual encounter doesn't require love in order to be a positive experience.

Hence, as stated above, the problem I have with fetishists is their lack of respect for youth, their lack of respect for intergenerational love and sex, and their tendency to project their own desires onto true GLer's. At least, this is how all the fetishists I have met in this community have acted.

I'm sorry if I came across as prejudiced in the above post, I just wanted to make the difference between true GLer's and child + teen fetishists clear to Brudda. Love is not necessary for a sexual encounter to be positive, but the overall ability to feel love for those you have a sexual interest in leads to many more positive encounters and a tendency to respect those people a lot more than those whose fantasies are strictly about hot and kinky sex.