Thank you:))

Now i understand why you wrote that previous post as you did. Yes, i agree that some fetishists think only of sex and non-contact, and since you have been here much longer, you have met more of those people than i have. I think we are fairly on the same page. Love and respect is of upmost importance- i agree. I'm sorry if i sounded harsh, but i'm just so fed up with prejudice. I understand now that this was not you intention or message, and for that i am greatful.

It's nice to hear you also can support the pure sexual (If legal). As they say in my country "There's many roads to Rome" I think strictly sexual relations can be great, but also feel that main emotional relations is of awesomeness. I guess i'm hypothetically on both roads.

I know that i have fooled my self on occations, telling myself this YF/A relationship is based mainly on the emotional not the physical attraction, but to my surprise find the contrary. On some of these occations i've seen that the young one also recognised and liked that kind of relation. (This mindtrap has luckily become easier to discover. Don't like the idea of fooling someone) On the other side of the coin, i have felt madly in love, because of the spiritually and emotinal attraction and friendship. The physical attraction was then not as important.

I do my best to love and respect the girls, and positively be something in their life. Even though many of us don't do anything illegal, i sometimes feel on shallow waters, and afraid my young friendships are not completely healthy. Now talking mainly about society's reactions to a legal but still close or romantic relationship, and the lack of possibility to completely return their affections, thirdly; being somewhat forced to be non spesific about your feelings for the young lady. I think many of us have been there a few times, and i for once get tired of always trying to be perfect as a girllover. Just being one makes it almost impossible.

We are like devils only by talking to young people. That is if they see our sexual attraction. It's a minefield and thus phetishists, motionalists and Fetishemotionalists should work together. Well at least the ones of us that care and respect the young ones. You write excellent by the way. Have a nice day Diss :))