Re: yeah

fair enough Dissident. i quite agree about AG's being more sexually aggressive, and i know that even 10 or 11yo's can be quite overt in that respect. i guess i was thinking of younger children when i wrote those words.

i'm sorry if i seemed contemptuous of people who prefer not to actively seek companionship with children. i certainly didn't mean to suggest that. i understand that if you are speaking out publicly in favour of sexual relationships with children/adolescents, then you are less at liberty to form relationships with them.

i don't want to get in another argument. they never go anywhere and i don't have any real problems with any of your stated positions. as usual, our misunderstanding arises partly from the difference in our AOA's.

in your case, my point would be that at least you are doing something, and not just griping about how unfair the world is and how your life is ruined cos you can't make love to little girls. i admire your restraint and i think you are realistically addressing the social complications inherent in your attraction base.

but i don't think everybody needs to do what you're doing to feel they are contributing to the overall acceptance or happiness of minor attracted people. i think what i'm doing is positive, and not in any sense a betrayal, which is what you often seem to suggest. i've given many people around me some insight into what minor attraction is about, but i've chosen not to make an issue of taboos against sexual contact with minors, and i think that is my choice. in my situation it simply would be a not productive strategy.