Re: deviladvocating...

I remember how Siva used to brag about all the LG's he had in his life, and how he once called me names for "having my best GM on a GL forum" (he said the latter thing on VoA, not on GC...he waited until I was posting on VoA before he attacked me, because I have less friends there). This may cause some people to think that when someone is talking about all the girls in their lives they are trying to imply that they are a better example of a GLer than someone without girls in their lives. I know that's not what you are saying, but I guess those of us without girls in our lives can be sensitive about other GLer's who DO have girls in their lives being contemptuous of us for not spending large portions of our personal time in real life BEING GLer's.

Some people in this community DO look down on others in the community who do not seek out legal relationships with as many girls as possible, and sometimes when you frequently refer to the girls in your lives and how much you NEED these girls in your life to feel complete that you may be similarly bragging. Please keep in mind that I am NOT accusing you of doing this, I am simply stating my opinion as to why some people here may be put off by some of the things you have said.