Doesn't add up

How does all the aforementioned jibe with the whatever you can dream of, you can create it in reality sentiment?

The magical materialization of desires and the notion that we can do anything we can imagine doesn't seem to connect with the notion of things to avoid or powers that can harm us only if we allow their negativity into our thoughts.

I will admit its a relief to see that you're more cautious than the power-of-intention creed initially led me to believe. But still the two outlooks seem incompatible.

I would dispute both of your precautions. Pretending not to see girls when everyone else is interacting with them could make you stand out. However I find it easy to both desire girls and to respect them as people. Its the respect which shines through in my actions. And while there's nothing disrespectful about desire, I choose not to share that with any person of any age who hasn't already made it clear that its reciprocal; nor do I broadcast my desires ( Pedophile or otherwise ) to the general public.

And while one shouldn't out oneself to family on the assumption that our kin will love us unconditionally, they shouldn't be automatically excluded from those we might choose to share with given the right circumstances. I think that being closeted in public and with family should be the default position.

But we should neither choose to make ourselves conspicuous by our studied indifference to LGs, nor should we entirely rule out the possibility of strategic voluntary outing for some of our own people.

Dante