GirlChat #451950
Re: paedo-grooming plotline on uk tv soap
Posted by
Dissident on 2008-September-18 02:01:51 EDT, Thursday
The biggest excuse that antis and others give to denounce the possibility that a teen may consent to a relationship with an adult is that they always claim that the youth in question had emotional problems and wasn't getting enough adult attention at home, so she easily fell into the bed of a man who she was only having a sexual relationship with because she cared about him as a sort of surrogate father figure and she did whatever she could to keep his attention. That is what they always say. They never figure that a teen girl may actually WANT to have a sexual relationship with an adult male simply because this is what she naturally desires. It doesn't have to stem from problems at home. During her brief time posting here, Brudda also said that she believed many young girls engaged in unwanted sexual relationships with adults simply because that is what the adult wanted and the girl in question didn't want him to lose affection for her, so she reciprocated his advances for that reason alone. I'm sure that in some cases, this is true, but it's perfectly natural for a teen girl to desire a full romantic relationship with an adult man due to a preference for adult men that has nothing to do with lack of adult attention at home or a desire to keep a man interested who she only has a daughterly interest in.