GirlChat #451990
Re: So how do y'all handle your desires?
Posted by
Spike on 2008-September-18 10:20:58 EDT, Thursday
My wife takes most of my frustrations away, I tell ya, she's a Godsend...but just because I have an attraction to someone does not mean I can't control it. The notion that we as pedophiles cannot control our desires, and that we attack every kid that comes our way, is just a lie. We have more self-control than most men that I know, that will slobber all over themselves when they see a beautiful girl walk by, but if I see a beautiful lg go by, I appreciate her, I look at her, have a fantasy in mind over her, store her in my memory banks, let her walk on by, and this all happens within a couple of minutes or seconds (depends on how long I got) but the girl is never bothered, and or even aware that I have done this. Some anti's will use this a "creepy" factor because it's all done in my head, and they can't stand that, they think I should be arrested just FOR THE THOUGHT!
(I keep thinking of a radio announcer telling Jack "your only a breath away!" LOL....)