Re: Some safety protocals that help protect you

pretending not to see young girls

i either see them, or i dont. imho, there's no excuse NOT to look, if i CAN look. there are some cases where one look at the girls face will tel you not to look anywhere else. that's fine.

but one of my favorite things in the world is seeing a girl--making eye contact (i'm always looking for eye color--that above weight, height, and even most times, age, is more important than anything). most of them smile, or, look back... and sometimes, rare times, it feels like they've had a whole conversation with me, in the .5 seconds that our eyes met.

no, i will not retend they're not there. they deserve more dignity than that. pretending they're not there is what PARENTS do.

we can avoid topics on child love and related stuff

i have never been afraid to breech this topic in home OR public. very few people know that i'm a MAA--and none of them are family. mostly, because i dont think my famiy would care if i was or not--but they dont NEED to know, so, they dont. but the topic itself isnt banned--and i talk about it. when i see some stupid ass over reaction on TV to a 15/17 year old becoming pregnant (jamie lynn, or the palin teen)... i say it's no one's buisness if they are--imho, they're WOMEN, not little girls, and people should leave them alone. i talk about my opnions on the stupidity of abstineince only sex-ed--and say that some fairly comprehensive sex ed. should start in grade school (4/5th grades for sure--God knows what i WANTED to do when i was that age, lol) ...

i'm fairly well known for my youth-rights stance--i dont go as far as some MAA's here, or even non-mma-youth right people, but i do believe in lower voting ages, lower drinking ages, lower ages for rights to proerty and emancipation.. and let them be WELL known.

no, i will not be silent, any more than i will pretend to be blind.

act and look like a perfect law abiding citizen

i am. very. i follow the speed limits even when i'm the only one on the road. i wait for trafic lights even though i'm the only one there. i follow rules and regualtions quite well--never had a problem with them. i've even done my part in sending people to prison. they deserved it.

and, i dont suppose you were suggesting otherwise... right?

The two worlds can never over lap each other

they overlap in almost every way there is.

if i wasnt a MAA, or girl lover, then there is no way i would EVER have bought those girl scout cookies... BUT, the girl that asked me to buy them was REALLY cute, and i melted like butter near a flame (she was THAT hot)... odly, i never suport the boy scouts. boys are gross.

my political and personal moral codes are build around how i see young people--they're people, deserving rights, freedoms and respect--and i let them, and their owners (parents) know just how i feel. this doesnt make me many friends.

my CL gives me infinitly more patience with teen girls than their parents have--an argument that would lead to an explosion between a parent and a girl, with ME gets talked about, and worked out--even if it takes an hour. i feel they become better people when treated like a person--not a piece of property that owes their soul to their parents.

the way i walk, the way i talk, how i think--even who i let cross the street at the store is all effected by my 'inner' self...

there is NO way to keep "2 worlds" seperate... nor shoudl they be.

not everyone needs to know EVERYthing about me--but why hide the good things that i have/am because i'm a MAA?

no.

i wont be blind, nor silent, nor will i hide the positive effects of me being an MAA.

stop lying to yourself.

~M~