Re: Self-disclosure

I guess you're right about the reasons and my main reason is the need to share it (not in an overbearing way) and that I think he's the one most likely to accept it. That and I get sick of pretending I'm attracted to adult women like he is.

It's like I can't help it, he's such a hyper perceptive person that I almost feel that if I don't agree with him (at least some of the time) when he finds an adult attractive then he will suspect something. It's stupid coz I want him to suspect something but I agree with him automatically and then think afterwards 'why did I say I found her attractive!?!?'. It must be something like trying too hard to convince him that I'm normal or something (even though nobody's normal!!!)

I don't know whether he seperates CL's with abusers so I will attempt to find that out first. I like the idea of almost being able to script the response of someone and that seems like the best way to go. So i'm gonna wait a while longer.

That's cool about your Dad! wish I could have that conversation with my Dad as I'm sure his head always turns when he see's a little girl (although it happens with women too!)

Thankyou for your wise words Dante

Quasar