Re: The 'P' word came up with my new friends

Thank you for the advice, Baldur. I do think that most women realize that virtually all men are attracted to teen girls. But the thing is, the vast majority of men deny and sometimes even suppress this natural attraction. Look at how our enemies push the belief that attraction to teen girls by adult men is NOT normal. Most men, including hebes, strive to keep this attraction well hidden, and go so far as to criticize any man who admits that he is attracted to teen girls. Also, the majority of men who find a teen girl attractive will feel guilty over this, and criticize himself. I have one friend to used to tell me that he thought a man my age who is attracted to a 14 year old girl is completely sick and disgusting.

Then there is the thing that makes a hebephile a hebephile...the fact that we have an actual preference for teen girls. My friends will likely not be thrilled about this, and I worry that Jenny will see me as being a threat to her 13 year old daughter (especially since I do think she is attractive; I would never hit on her, of course). Then again, my friend Nancy is well aware that I find younger women, including 18 year old women, attractive. Is she to assume that my attraction magically stops for any girl that is even one year under the Magic Age?

Still, I get very nervous when I make new friends...I will do my best to heed JD's advice and your advice, of course...I will keep you updated on how things go in the future.