The best way to avoid an obscenity charge or any other unfair accusation based on your sexual preferences is to keep your private matters private.
- Use a proxy to navigate potentially questionable sites.
- Make sure your browser's DNS requests are filtered over an anonymous connection.
- Encrypt information whenever possible to prevent third parties (such as ISPs or hackers) from reading intercepted data.
- Disable cookies and JavaScript when surfing privately to help prevent personally identifying information from leaking.
Perhaps the easiest way to accomplish all these things is with the Vidalia Bundle and Firefox. Download the NoScript and CookieCuller Add-ons to easily manage both JavaScript and cookies from inside Firefox. The Vidalia Bundle should come with the Torbutton Add-on. If not, download it yourself. Then use Firefox any time you wish to surf anonymously. Also, as you become more experienced, consider donating some bandwidth to the EFF's Tor Project to increase speed and reliability for all users of the Tor network.
You have the right to privacy. There is nothing wrong with taking advantage of the tools that are available to ensure you are doing everything you can to protect it. And if you can do so while helping to further freedom of speech and privacy for everyone, then all the better! As NFiH says, "Surf safe. ;)"