OK, but one thing . . .

You say that you treat children well, and they would not want to leave you . . . so as far as I can see the opinion of myself and the others here should not harm you at all. If you have children that want to stay with you, then our opinion is that no one should prevent them from staying with you.

On the other hand, if they are quaking in fear in your presence and want to leave, I don't believe the collectivist state should force them to go back to you. But presuming your assessment of the situation is truthful and accurate, I don't see how our opinion - that children (at least once they have reached self-awareness) have ownership of themselves - would hurt you, and in fact it supports your right to have consensual relationships with the children in your life, in opposition to those who presume collective ownership of children and who would separate children from you without regard to their wishes.