GirlChat #456504
depends on the situation
Posted by Baldur on 2008-December-06 15:48:05 EST, Saturday
In reply to a meaty first time question for GC? posted by Eeyore on 2008-December-04 13:26:22 EST, Thursday
In any case, besides the question of the reaction of other children, there is the question of the reaction of the girl herself. Praise for good behavior can be a good thing, and a powerful incentive to behave well in the future - but too much praise can lead to a sense of undeserved entitlement. If a child is praised for every thing they do, no matter how easy - or even unplanned - they will soon expect to have everything handed to them without any effort on their part. This will not be doing them any favors, and will in fact be setting them up for a lifetime of failure. I can't tell you how often I have seen grown men do virtually nothing for a whole shift except complain that they aren't respected enough and aren't paid enough for all the "hard work" they do - which mostly consists of showing up and not going to sleep on the job. (In fact, I have found two indicators that let me know that a worker is worthless: (1) if they brag or complain about all the "hard work" they do, and (2) if they brag about their many years of experience in a job.)
So, please don't let any of the children you know become one of these jerks. Praise is good . . . in moderation.
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- that's the word - Eeyore on 2008-December-08 01:59:20 EST, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Ditto-NT - Seth on 2008-December-06 22:57:21 EST, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)