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A female friend called me a pervert today :(

Posted by Dissident on 2008-December-07 07:40:39 EST, Sunday
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Guys, I need your advice again about a little incident with an adult female friend today. I already got some good advice in the chat room, but I could use some out here, as well.

Last week I went out to dinner with a friend and we had the honor of being served by a very cute waitress (about 19-early 20's) and she had her top unbuttoned quite a bit, obviously to show off the top of her breasts. The rest of her outfit hugged her body very tightly, and it was clear from the attire that her body was very shapely. She looked awesome and I think she has every reason to be proud of her body. Needless to say, I left her a gracious gratuity despite the fact that I didn't get the best service from her (we think she was a newbie).

Today I went out to dinner with a different adult female friend and I admitted to her (as I am admitting to you guys) that I do tend to give an extra few dollars a tip to cute waitresses who wear clothing that flatters their body and therefore provides an admiring sight to their male customers (as well as to any bi female or lesbian customers, of course). This friend really started bitching at me about that...she called me a "pervert" and told me that I was being like a typical guy for that behavior.

Now, let me ask you guys...is there anything perverse or unsavory about admiring the body of a beautiful young woman? Should the waitress in question feel offended? Or should she be proud that her body is so admired? Don't get me wrong...I still leave a good tip to ugly or older waitresses if I got good service from them. But I won't leave as gracious a tip if I got bad service from them. On the other hand, I will tend to give a somewhat more gracious gratuity for younger women who are cute and dress to make it clear that they are proud of their bodies even if if I don't get the greatest service from them.

Is there anything wrong with this? My friend's words really stung me :(

Dissident

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