Thank you for the responses

I appreciated the advice and support, as always. Based on the advice I got here I believe I have been wrong to tip a waitress better simply because she is cute and dresses to kill. I have been convinced that quality of service is paramount here. Of course, I will continue to admire beautiful young women and be appreciative of them dressing to show off the assets that Mother Nature was generous enough to give them, and I will not consider myself a "pervert" simply for admiring something so beautiful. I don't think there is anything wrong with a girl or woman being proud of her body, or for men admiring such a natural work of art.

I should also mention that today my friend apologized to me for calling me a pervert and being harsh on me about that. So I think it's safe to say that she is a cool person, especially for accepting me as a hebe :)