Re: Why is this called pedophilia ?

Everyone's got different definitions of what paedophilia is, unfortunately most of which are simply incorrect. And of course different races and individuals mature at incredibly different rates. My race reaches puberty on average about age 9 and we are fully fledged young adults by age 12. "I was happy to found out that i was not really attracted to young children 0-13 years old" 0 to 13 is a huge age gap, and while I would regard a 6 month old as a young child, I would regard a 13 year old as far far from it, and so I fiercely will always be against bundling this huge age span into one single bracket. Throughout history it was quite common for people by the time they reached 12, to take stock, marry and have children of their own (hence the old German proverb "Adulthood begins at 12"). You must remember that 9 to 13 year olds have babies of their OWN, so how can you possibly put THEM into the same category of being the objects of paedophilic attraction, let alone a 16 year old? So yes, you are not a paedophile at all, far from it. Not that it would matter if you WERE, because I for one don't give a fuck if you had a liking for 3 year olds, but you are definitely not a paedophile and I wouldn't even really call you a hebephile either. 16 and 17 year olds are just way out of that bracket as far as I'm concerned. That is a very mature woman. "It's just that i hear this story about a sport teacher having sex with 12-16 years old young players and now he is convicted for pedophilia." Purely LEGAL SEMANTICS, my sir, not scientific reality. "I can understand that sex with 12-13 years old player is pedophilia and even 14 years old player to some extent." Then you're a fucken idiot fooled by the media machine. Unless of course you are saying that as a joke? "I know it happen for teens to be attracted to young adults" Ummm, teens ARE young adults. A 20 something year old is an old bastard. You need to get a grip on reality and stop listening to all the gibberish uttered to you by the media and law courts. They are not God. As you said, their definition of "pedophilia" is merely a misnomered synonym of "underage" sex.