Ping! You'll end your hate rants now LOD

LOD. You are in violation of rule #3. You have continued to harass a poster after they asked you to stop. You also seem to be determined to sew unrest and hate. Your statement:

And I have a right to respond to your bullshit, dictator. If you don't want me to respond, then you should give me nothing to respond to.

On the contrary. I responded to your attack while I was talking to Dissy. You attacked and I asked you to stop harassing me. Your attack was as follows:

Your number 2 thing is just complete bullshit, I shouldn't even bother responding to it. With or without me, things would still be the same. It's not like I'm being used as a example in anything when it comes to deciding things like civil commitment of sex offenders. Please. They don't need me. I don't have that great of an influence.

I'm not asking people to be like me, it's you who is trying to dictate to people here. NFIH is obviously just being himself. I doubt he's being polite to impress antis like you are.

Here are some of the groundless accusations you've made:

My statements are Bullshit? OK. That's your opinion. Having stated that did you stop! No?

it's you who is trying to dictate to people here.

It is my job to be a peacemaker. I did not carve you up in response to your attack when I was writing to Dissy and not to you. I asked you to stop harassing me.

Rule #3: "We expect you to behave as if you were a guest in someone's home. Vulgar language, insults, name-calling, and that sort of behavior is frowned on...If you disagree with another's opinion, especially if the opinion was not expressed to you, or about you, do not become insulting. Allow others the dignity to freely exchange opinions without flaming either of the participants in an exchange."

I did not speak to you nor about you on this board after I asked you stop harassing me-not once.

NFIH is obviously just being himself. I doubt he's being polite to impress antis like you are.

NFiH led the revision of the FAQ-which is the end work of a Committee of nine. It is the job of this Committee to first of all act as peacemakers and secondly enforce the rules if attempts at making peace do not work.

Some of the other elements in those rules, which you insist in breaking, is:

Harassment is a statement designed to alarm or annoy another person. We all make mistakes and get angry; but, harassment is illegal and it will not be tolerated. Repeatedly harassing another poster will lead to a post being edited, deleted, or the banning of the harassing individual.

No post may be made that discriminates against someone on the basis of race, national or ethnic origin, color, social or economic status, marital status or family status, gender, age, disability, sexual orientation,

You not only attacked me after I asked you to cease, you attacked gay marriage-which is a no no. Marital Status? Sexual orientation?

The rule continues: "Note: such discrimination is disallowed by the Human Rights Act, in Canada, and many of the above categories are also protected by law in the USA and Europe. Violation of this law might be interpreted as a hate crime. Posts attacking any individual in violation of this rule will be deleted and the poster warned. Repeated violations will result in a loss of posting rights for a time to be determined by the Committee.

...We're trying to provide a respectful, non-judgmental place where girl lovers can get ideas out in the open. Hate-mongering just doesn't fit in with that mission. If you must disagree, please do so without being disagreeably rude. Again, it is often better to simply agree to disagree than to disrupt the spirit of the community."

Consider this your final warning from me without issuing a ban to you; and consider yourself blessed that I care for your well being-just as I care for every poster at GirlChat. The Committee may yet decide to act on your behavior. I will re cruse myself if that happens. However, in response you your idea that NFiH might just me a good guy know that he too had a hand and posted this FAQ which reads as this Committee agreed that it should read:

"Please attempt to be moderate in your own choice of terminology. We might never make many friends in discussions with non MAAs, no matter how gracious our response; but, we do well to remember that it is society that has brainwashed the masses. Using soundness of mind when speaking our minds in response to flames, foolish talk, and false accusations is seldom easy. But it just might be exactly this type of moderate argument that the neighbors of known pedophiles need to hear in order to use a modicum of decency in their treatment towards those of us who, for one reason or another, have been outed in our communities."

Whether you agree with me or not was never the issue. Forgive the pun; but I am a died in the wool Committee member as of 2001. I believe in every word of our FAQ. It is a protection. I am no fake, LOD. I don't just walk the walk, I live it.

Additionally, know that, contrary to your opinion, I know that the Committee worked closely with our MAA tolerant ISP both prior to, during, and after the demise of GirlChat. My words are cast in the posts of others which you will never read. Girl Chat was brought down by angry anties.

I don't know how much money and muscle you've invested in Girl Chat in my absence LOD; so, I don't know how much you have to lose. I do know such speech didn't stop countless GirlLove sights from being eliminated. I know I lost so much hard work that I had to come back from my death bed and live in order to help rebuild it again. I will not lay down quiet and die now-and like it or not it is the FAQ which dictates our actions. If you make the FAQ ban you it will your doing. We will follow the rules that we, and many other Committee members, wrote over these past eleven years.

With regard to following rules, if I read one more attack after this last warning, I will be back, LOD, and you will receive an immediate ban without further discussion. You may resume posting civilly in 60 seconds. And, you may always post civilly to me. If you wish to discuss Girl Love, I'll smile and sincerely enjoy it. If you wish to spread grief...goodnight.