regarding Lolitas

LOL ! Theres this adorable little 9 1/2 year old girl at my dojo which I had mensioned before . I think that she knows that I have a crush on her because I tell her how cute she is all the time ,and she seems quite receptive to my complements ,but she says that she has a boy friend ( 12 ) and an ex bf whos 11 .\This is slightly depressing to me but it also means that she is into boys ,especially "older guys " . Well , Im quite a bit older than her , but I am technically still a "kid " (well a teenager anyways ) . The girl ,lets call her S ,is a mixture of a tomboy and a "girlie girl" ,and looks (and acts ) quite abit like Hermione at 11 or so , though I have a fealing that she may be sexually aware at some level above her own age range , like shes atleast 12 or 13 .She reminds me of that little "LOLITA " girl from the book Lolita ,but a little younger . The funniest thing is that I think that her dad knows that I have a little crush on her , but he hasnt gotten all "up in arms " protective ,because I think that 1. he knows that S has that effect on guys and 2 . he knows that I wont risk everything to rape her ,3 . and even if I were , the only place I ever see them is at a dojo with all the other students above me in rank and a grandmaster sensei .

Have you guys ever encountered sexy " nymphets" that seem to be sexually aware and are the proof that not all pedos are molesters ?