Re: Sigh.. Hello..

Hi!

Are you SURE he knows, or do you WORRY IF he knows...

I don't mean you have to answer these questions. It is just a rhetoric way of asking the question. Cause I have seen many times, that I have been worried, and I have been almost 100% sure I knew about the reasons why, etc. But the reasons were most of the time something totally different. (Sorry, my English is too simple... I cannot express the nuances in this language. Please, bear with me...)

Anyhow, I guess the best thing is to take it easy, just let it rest a bit...

If you are sure he knows, then it would probably be good not to try to push it too much. It can make it become an open conflict between you. And that might be bad.

If you only worry if he knows, then the same thing would be the right thing to do, I guess.

It seems like you have tried to contact him many times already. If his phone is not lost, or something, he knows you have tried to get to him. So just step back, and let it be for some time.

I have been in similar situations. He break all contact with me, just because of ONE naughty comment from me. He could never guess I was a ped, even not after my bad comment. But he break all contact. I have never heard from him since. It is maybe 20 years now...

Another friend, a very close friend, he found out by accident. And he told it to me that he know, by hinting about it. And we are best friends even now. When "the subject" comes up in a group, *he* is the one changing the subject to something else as soon as he can because of me. He is a great friend. And he is not even one of us.

I hope all goes well. Don't worry too much. You have close friends and family that you can trust in though times. Be with those friends/family.

Most of my family knows about me. Some are now more distant, some are still very close. And especially one of my sibling and their family needed maybe almost 10 years before they got in closer contact with me again, after they found out about me.

So the best advice is to be careful and to give it some (or much) time.

Hugs!

(To exercise is a very good advice, too.)