I see little girls as HUMAN BEINGS.

Often one will read that a paedophile views children as objects to use for the pleasure of the paedophile. A paedophile only does nice things for/to a child with hopes of being able to take advantage of them sexually. This is often referred to as "grooming". Paedophiles will seek out "at risk" children (kids without a parent, or with troubled homes/lives) not because they want to make their lives better but because they are easier grooming targets. Children are just objects to paedophiles.

This is one of the most frustrating things I read about paedophiles. Sure, there are paedophiles who only view children as objects for their sexual pleasure. There are also parents who only view children as a means to achieve their un-achieved goals. Do we assume that ALL parents are like this? Of course not.

What you will read past here refers to "little girls" but this is how I treat ALL people who have earned my respect and I have earned theirs.

As a paedophile I want to let the world know, I do not view little girls as objects. I, unlike most of humanity, view them as individual human beings. They have worth now, not when they get older. They have goals, interests, dreams, desires, frustrations, likes, dislikes, etc. Their opinion matters, they deserve the right to bodily autonomy, they deserve the right to express themselves.

I listen to little girls just as I would an adult. I treat them with equal initial respect, I am open to their suggestions, I value their opinion.

I care for them.

Most of the "child advocates" who spread the lie that all paedophiles view children as mere objects almost unanimously do so themselves. What do child advocates do if a child says they enjoyed a sexual interaction? They do everything in their power to make sure the child becomes a victim. They are so convinced that the paedophile brainwashed the child that they are willing to brainwash the child themselves. This child is an object of their moral views. If the child does not fit into that mold the "child advocate" shall forcefully push the child in it. Regardless of the damage it causes. Then blame the resulting damage on the paedophile.

People like to attack paedophiles but they don't realize the crimes against children they commit themselves. Parents can force their child to follow certain religions, support certain political ideologies, support racist viewpoints, steal their possessions, falsely imprison them, commit assault and assault with a weapon against a child. Teachers are often given these powers too. Children are not allowed to direct their own learning, they often can't use the bathroom when they wish, they have to eat when and what their masters tell them.

Paedophiles aren't guilt free in this regard. Obviously many of them support these views. Many here will read this post and disagree with the paragraph before this one. My point though is that society unfairly labels paedophiles as something ALL of society is itself. Objectifiers of children.

I hope you enjoyed that little rambling :D