Re: Possible

(Hard enough finding a cute, active social girl who is interested in someone in my age group, even harder to find someone who is bi/les)

My dreams taunt me, I mix with those of varying ages in my social groups, I party with ages teen to 50.. I am very socially active.

Hey that sounds like me. Of course, my AOA is lower; and of course, though the issue of the age gap is greater for me, I don't have the issue of breaking heterosexuality. Yet I know what it is like to feel the temptations without many realistic hopes.

I really don't know what to do. For times of my life I tried to deny it or reconvert for practicality. But it is just there, it's impossible to do that. Even though that sounds just about impossible, I think Gimwinkle is probably right that the only ultimate solution is finding someone there that happens to be legal and interested in you and that, magically enough, you too find attractive. It's no less than a needle in the haystack, but I feel that's where we are now.

Sorry that I cannot be more helpful...