Re: I'm disappointed in Starlet Luver and VOA

Hi Hypersonic,

I do not think you are being fair to Girl Chat or even being fair to yourself to try to air out your confusion or frustration about VoA on this board.

But anyway, I have sent you 2 e-mails explaining to you that I was not present when all this happen. I had to rely on the reports from the ChatMods and the Chat logs.

After the ChatMod file this report, It was voted on by the Admins that you should be removed from our site. All the Admins voted unanimously that you should be ban from VoA. The fact that you requested that your nick to be removed a day before an Admin process your banning does not change anything.

Being in the chat room is a special privilege we give to members we feel we can trust. Trust is EXTREMELY RARE in the CL community. And I hope you understand why it is rare.
Some members in the chat room will let down their guard and will share very private things about their lives while they are in that room Your action in the chat room back then was a HUGE breach of trust and it made those members feel extremely uncomfortable. So we take that trust and this privilege very seriously. When you act in the way that you did in the chat room, it puts that "TRUST" in grave danger and it harms the bonding that take place in that special room. You destroyed that trust for those members who were present in that chat room that day.

So I hope you seriously think about that for awhile.

BTW, you were not banned solely for fighting with the member(S) in the chat room that night. It was also the combination of your actions on the board under the various nicks you had that the Admins also used to help them with their decision to have you removed. Your distrusting behavior in the chat room was also notice by different Mods on the board. Perhaps it was the fact that you were not sober at those various times when the Mods created reports on you when your actions on the board were threatening to the board or towards other members. It was these reports created by the Mods that the ADMIN use to help them give the "YES" vote to have you banned along with your action in the chat room that day. You must remember that the Admins and the Mods do not know when you are drunk or sober; they do not know how many bottles of Jack Daniels you have stack in front of you while you posting at the board or in the chat room. All they can do is read what you type and evaluate those words as they are.
So I support the decision of the Admins, the Mods and the Chatmods back when they voted to ban you from VoA. They were only doing their jobs as the members and I have asked them to do.

Much Love,
-sL-