Seduce is a verb, not an adjective ;p

Seductiveness, like aggressiveness is more subjective than objective.

Are you acting seductive towards that older gent just because he fancies you? Well, unless you were actually seducing him, then the seductiveness was in his mind and you may be entirely unaware of your fanciers.

This isn't to say that young girls aren't incapable of trying to charm those they want to. But finding her charming doesn't mean that its intentional.

That's why, in the absence of any info about what's going on in another's mind, I prefer to avoid sentence constructions that center the effect desire has on me in the object of my affections.

But then again, I can be so cautious about avoiding "projecting" my feelings that I've sometimes been oblivious when she actually was flirting with me. ( Yes, some have had to proverbially hit me over the head with a 2x4 to make their intentions clear. )

So, by my thinking. Feeling seduced doesn't mean that you are being seduced. But when you are, its a deliberate act, even if you are unaware of it.

Dante