Hi, Madscience,
Your apology is appreciated, and accepted. Please just be mindful in the future about this aspect of Rule #5 from our FAQs:
GirlChat deals with sexuality. It's necessary to talk about sex, and sometimes to share sexual experiences. We expect these to be tastefully worded and not mistaken for erotica. Do not go into detail, especially if the act being described is/was unlawful.
I think you have the potential to be a very productive and astute poster, so as long as you keep the above in mind, there is no reason you cannot fulfill that potential.