Re: Friendly toward pedos?

if you touch a little girl, or a woman outside of the marriage spectrum, the girl will be treated as a adulterer,

Depends on the details - but yes, it is a possibility.
A perverse incentive in family approval is that families denying approval to the relationship, yet a consensual relationship taking place, ends up being adultery because there is no marriage planned later on. Pre-marital sex is not necessarily adultery, otoh, when there is an intention to marry.

but mostly the girls would be punished,

That's cultural. In paper, both are equally to be punished.

and the man who did the offense would have to make retribution to the father/husband, much as if they lost livestock, not sure what the retribution would be,

Only in rape. Actual rape. As in, she refused, she gets hurt. He pays what is de facto a lifelong pension to her, and although he is not considered as ever having married her, marriage regulations against marriageability with in-laws apply, meaning he cannot marry her, her sisters, her mother, her daughters, and any other direct ancestor or descendant.

Btw, I do love the idea of rape leading to the rapist paying a lifelong pension. Much better than a registry. Jail might still be desirable for many rapists, sure, but lifelong pension is a way better penalty than registration.