Re: Grow out of attraction

In that case you should never enter into a relationship, period, because you never know when it will end and neither does she.

No, that's not what I said. I didn't say you shouldn't enter a relationship knowing it might end; I said you shouldn't enter a relationship expecting it to end, especially expecting it to end with both parties satisfied to move on at the same time. Try reading what I actually wrote. The point is, it's selfish to enter a relationship with a girl just assuming that when the time comes the girl will be ready to move on at the same time you are. It may in fact end that way, but you don't know that and you can't count on it. If you want a long-term relationship with someone, then you had be prepared for her to want to stay in it for life, or at least you had better be up front about your expectations before you get into it. Anything else is just leading her on, and that is cruel.