'Ruined' girls

Feamales are not "ruined" by attaining a certain magical age; they are ruined, for me, after enough exposure to callous young boys who are only interested in getting their rocks off, after enough exposure to unrealistic societal expectations, and after enough exposure to the realities of life vis-a-vis their internalized romantic longings which our society has conveniently and unfeelingly inculcated.
This is why I feel that young girls should ONLY be allowed to date peds; that is also unrealistic to expect but it would go a long way toward ending the War of the Sexes, or at least diminishing the war to an armed truce.

Attraction: there is more to attraction than the physical, as every true ped knows; with us the emotional and psychological is at least as important as the physical, if not more so.
Establishing a relationship with a young girl allows the two of you to bond far beyond the mere coupling in bed that the average marriage provides; if the girl is too young for sex, as Mohammed felt the six-year-old Alyesha was when he married her, then by the time she is ready to consummate the marriage there is an emotional and psychic bond between the two that transcends physicality.

And where, pray tell, did I say that it is always the girl who decides to break it off? Read the post again, more carefully.