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Re: Grow out of attraction
Posted by Dante on 2011-December-07 19:09:14 EST, Wednesday
In reply to Grow out of attraction posted by redcocoa101 on 2011-December-05 20:33:29 EST, Monday
However, on a tangental note; the stereotype holds that Males fall for Females expecting them to never change, and Females fall for Males requiring that they change. While change is inevitable, future change is not predictable ( outside of the fact that people age over time. )
From what I gather in her talk to others ( including my baffled younger step-daughter ) I was divorced for failure to meet some unspoken ultimatum about who I was supposed to become.
When I said, "Until death do us part," I didn't mean to keep her married even if she no longer loved me. But I did believe that there would be a fight to make it work. That she presented it as a fait accompli is what I resent.
Dante
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