Agreed

I think Stahntii's position is exactly how we should all feel. Leave the option of staying in the relationship open if the love persists; don't just assume it will end when she ages out of your AoA. In so doing you place a limitation on the relationship up front and things like that have a tendency of becoming self-fulfilling prophecy. Looks fade but what about an emotional connection, which to me is more important than looks anyway? As Stahntii said, making your relationship entirely about looks is just shallow.

That said, children's personalities can change too as they age; one of my former beloveds became kind of a bitch when she hit her teen years; she got it from her mom and grandma. As difficult as she can be, I still remain friends with her. Had we had a romantic relationship I don't know if I could've stayed with her given how bitchy she became, but I can't say even then that I would've been prepared to call it quits. I would've at least tried to make it work.