someone important guessed im a pedo

I sent an email to the high priestess of the local pagan coven (well Wiccan to be exact) asking her the specifc laws and rules of her coven .Earlier I had asked her about morality and magic, when and if dark magic and violence is acceptable as well as questions about various Deities and weather or not they were evil or not . She said that there is no such thing as good and evil and such concepts are designed christians trying to control and label people , things are more ying yangthangood/evil . We started talkinsg about politics and loyalties ,and she said that she was an anarchist because she cant think of ANY govt system working well . So I debated thus : Okay , if there is no good and evil or arbirtary laws , certainly your coven being an organization must have some rules of some sort . She said that it did, but didnt lay them out . I said , I am willing to follow the rules and costomes of the Coven , but I must know them ,so I foolishly brought up one of the ONLY soft spots for even the most liberal "anarchists " ....Age of Concent . See ,the Coven has a special ritual for a young girls first period ,her menarch ,and I unwisely asked if this was the age when she is open to the dating market ....well Id say I was a little more vague than that , but you get the jist . I said that since gays and all these other wierdos ( I didnt say wierdos ,but I really do think that they are abit.....off)are allowed full reign sexually , are the rights of AGs also taken into concideration? She responded in the way that I had feared she would (but mercifully and like there was something wrong with me and I needed conciling , she told that I was a pedo and need not bring it up again. She then asked for a donation for her time and we havent spoken again since . What do I do ? She is an important religious figure in the pagan circles where I live ,and I need to patch up any misunderstandings with her . I guess I am willing to bite my tonge and deal with her low view on pedos , I mean , isnt EVERYONE , in EVERY political party an anti or atleast pretending to be? Should I hid my hebephilia and pretend to be one too ? I was thinking of sending her a vague email apologising for any "miscommunications " we had in our last email correspondance ...Here is the first draft . "Madam ,I believe I stated a question in the wrong wording , and it lead you to believe that I was a pedophile, which I am not . I am ,as you stated as your own believes , an anarchist or atleast ....extreamly liberal . I do believe in some rules and laws ,but not laws for the sake of order or control, I am willing to respect an elder or wise one in a specific order or path that I choise to follow ,and I certainly respect you for dedication to the Craft ,Wisdom in the Wiccan Way and the time you have taken to answer my humble questions . I do respect your judgement , and I blame myself for the misscommunication in our last email correspondance . My point was not to seek approval to engage in sexual actions with minors but rather a mistated question about the rules of Wicca . There are many Pagan cultures (especially the Japanese ) which hold that puberty as a Coming of Age , atleast in olden times and is not Wicca a reconstruction of olden religion ? I do NOT mean to say that my personal interest lies in pubesent girls ( though I find young women and girls beautiful and wonderful) my MAIN point was to ask of the RULES of the Coven ,not to start any debates .Seeing that we both atleast view the laws and regulations of greater society with a "grain of salt " (or prehapts the whole shaker ) my secondary point was to state that an arbitrary age line does NOT ensure children's saftey and that the police are rarely effective in such matters . "