Is that detailed enough hypersonic? It's abusive because I didn't want it and I said I didn't want it.

That is all the details you need give. If you said "no," and the guy didn't comply with your feelings, then it was indeed abuse. I'm very sorry that happened to you. I wish I could have "words" with that guy.

Also, I concur with Markie: everything in this post was very well said, redcocoa.