Ex-LGFs vs. other adult women

Are your ex-LGFs as bitchy as the adult women you did not know in your AoA?

Like:
You picked your LGF-s because they were then less bitchy than other LGs in your AoA, and that difference still applies now she is adult?
Romantic (or illegal, as per rules do not specify) interaction with you altered your LGF permanently to be less bitchy?
Your ex-LGF is actually as bitchy as other adult women her age, but since you continue to have feelings for her as your LGF, you are not bothered by her bitchiness as you are by bitchiness of other women?
Your ex-LGF is actually as bitchy as other adult women her age, but coming from her it is more offensive and hurtful for you than the bitchiness of other women?
Romantic/illegal (see above) interaction with you altered your LGF permanently to be more bitchy?
No detectable/statistically significant difference?

What do you think?