Penis or Vagina

I think you are born a boy or a girl and for most people that is that. Unfornately our society labels boys and girls. I do believe that there are generalities where a lot of boys act a certain way or a lot of girls act a certain way. Then our society makes it so that people believe that ALL boys have to act this way or ALL girls have to act that way. Not just against women either, boys can't wear pink, or do ballet, or ice skate or cry without being seen as a sissy. Girls can't be competitive, they always have to think of how other people feel, and be 'nice' and pretty. These are inforced by our society more then by our actual gender.

I do believe that some people think that they really should be a man or really should be a women and if that's possible I see no reason why they can't, I've had a friend who consider themselves a 'lesbian' even though they are a man. It's all just a big label, if someone wants to be a women or wants to be a man I see it as they want to be treated the way a women/man gets treated in our society which is fine if that's what they want to do.

I don't think it's right for people to prefer a daughter over a son or a son over a daughter. If you have a child you should love them for who they are not for whether they have a penis or a vagina. I believe in letting children do what they want because of who they are not based on their gender. If I have a boy he is welcome to dance or figure skate, or play with dolls, or wear bright colours. Who decided pink was a girl colour? Same with a girl, if she wants to skateboard or play with diggers all day who am I to stop her? Love your child for who they are and who they want to be, not their gender.