Re: This is just what I meant. :)

haha thanks predator! yeah the truth is although i have been a reader of this site for 8 years and a member for about 5 or 6(i'm pretty sure)....i have been infrequent and certainly selective on what i spend time on reading...usually at the first sign of negativity or drama i move on.

therefore, i suppose i have not fully understood the purpose of people's suspicion's and hesitation toward me.

and again, since i don't pay attention to things that aren't related directly to helping me learn and grow in my girl love life, i honestly don't even know what ahnasty was originally banned for.

what i do know is that the moderators of this board have always been extremely understanding, helpful, firm and fair when it came to dealing with me. and if he did enough to get him self banned i'm confident they had sufficient reasoning and don't feel bad for him at all.

also, i wanted to mention that because my gf and i have deactivate our accounts in "real life" on any social media networks(for personal reasons) i have found myself with really not much else to do online but come to GC, lol.

so with that said i'm hoping with my more frequent use people can get to know her and i a little better and begin to build a trust in us.

and i don't mean to ever have any contact what-so-ever off this board because i am way too careful for that and the risk is much greater than the reward...but simply that when i say something and share parts of my life it is taken as truth by the people on this board that i respect and care about. and you predator i feel are one of those.

any how thanks for your response!!

hope u have a good weekend!! i will be enjoying some r & r!! (rascals & rug rats) haha jk :)

Justin