Re: a fear i have........

Hi, Justincredible.

I remember you from the days that I started on here, I post in-frequently too. That is not a bad thing in my mind, I've just been mostly busy IRL, hanging around on CL forums that have lax-rules (AnonTalk aka. AT.. not toatlly CL, but was good IMO, SS i.e. Sigma's old board, LGH etc though, not too many that I can find today, or none better yet) and just recently, I've found out about the Deepnet, so I've been browsing the onionlands a lot.

To you post and questions, I really haven't been keeping up with your recent posts but I did read the ones about your upcoming baby etc (.. still gotta read that one your GF posted). And I feel some ppl may not totally believe you, because I'll admit, I did, at first think it was too good to be true.. your GF turning out to be an GLer and all. But I then thought about it some more, then made my reply based on that.

"...speaking more and more about things that could possibly help someone in giving away my identity.....

I'd say that's more of your own choice, but shouldn't be done to gain ppl trust in what you may post. And that as well can be very bad in some cases, there is a great old BC post I believe titled "How Not To Accidentally Out Yourself" (IIRC, it was copied to GC.. now in archives), anyway, it suggests that if we decide to post info which could possibly help someone ID you. To make a database yourself on every possible info that could be used against you. I thought that this would be fun to try but I've never done so, and really can't start now (unless I go back and reread all the post I've made).

".. i feel sometimes i want to totally come out on here...send out all my pics, give u links to all my social media sites, make a youtube video expressing my love for little girls"

I felt like that before too, mostly when I was just starting out on here. But, we all must remember that there are degrees of coming out... for example, coming out on a message forum isn't the same as coming out on national TV, same goes with ppl who "claim" to be out peds IRL, but are really only out to 100-200 ppl (not to the whole world etc). I say semi-out because I feel that fit me.. although, not out to 100/200 but only like 15-20+.

Ppl have given links to social media sites that have pics on them but only when they feel that they can or are in a good place to do so. KBA made his YT vids that he took down himself, but he was outed so kinds iffy.. I think they were really great and something that needed to be done, others have YT vids of only voices.

"...real age, my gf's age, the hours i work, all the different places i have worked in the past etc...."

I, personally think ages are fine (if you're OK about posting/saying it). Hours in which you work, hmmm dunno bout this one unless it goes in with your post, and even then I'd be careful or not do it.. you could lie and make it a few hrs behind/ahead etc (know one will ever know..). Diff places you have worked, humm that one could give someone the means to pinpoint your 20 (.. well, maybe etc), you could again lie a 'lil etc (I'm sure you know what you could say that made it kinda true but really isn't). Another thing is, say the place in which you once worked is in the same city/town etc that you live in now, and in small, not too many etc.. well that's just another thing to think about.

I also wanted to let ya know that I remember your old site that you once had, and I really liked to. IIRC, that didn't last long? Well, just thought I'd let ya know! Bye for now :)