Re: Shoulder rubs? Back scratches? Foot massages?

Yes, very correct. Didn't say, I agree with it, just that there's good discussions going on (which I'm involved in), that are shall we say more open, then we can have on here.

Regarding memories, I've been researching this some what, and I've read that some ppl have remembered things, but only small things like a T.V. prog, big house, pets etc., ages start from 2-3yo (so I can tell, if I'm mistaken about this please let me know). the longer memories happen by age 6, I guy said. Now with me, I can remember lots about HS, more in detail. I remember around age 4-5, I'd say, standing on my grandmas' porch. My grampa giving my a sip (could be more but not sure of beer round same age. I remember lots of certain toys that I had in our old, old house.. even a bit of items that were in the house etc. I don't really know where I'm going with this so I'll just stop.

But yes, I agree, if something happens that's very negative, can affect them.