...I didn't deny it was defined that way in the dictionary, and in fact, I said it in another post in this very thread. I was simply explaining why that term is NOT applicable for this discussion thread (i.e., as a term used to describe a youth--underage or of legal age--who has a preference for significantly older but not necessarily elderly individuals), and how it is often used around the MAA boards (i.e., as someone with a preference for others in the same general age demographic, which we USUALLY apply to other adults, true). If you try to say otherwise, then YOU are totally wrong.

And I wish more people could weigh in on a positive manner in this thread, instead of simply jumping on my case about this or that thing, and focus on the discussion at hand that I am trying to broach. And I noticed, Sancho, that you showed not the least concern (at least thus far) for the attack post Trucker made on me (the one where he made up a label for me, as someone who talks nothing but BS). I can promise the other posters here that I will not likewise ignore it if he does the same thing to them in the future, which he inevitably will knowing his history. The fact that you posted in this thread makes it clear you did notice it.