There we go with the labels again. You'd be surprised as to how most adults live under the surface, and above ground. Again, there is more freedom than you think exists and more secrets that no one knows about.
Okay, than saying "ditzy" girls is also using labels, right? In fact, maybe calling people "kids" or "adults" are also labeling people? I'm not trying to be obnoxious here, but just making a point that it's not always possible or desirable to entirely avoid using labels, which is why they need to be used responsibly when they are used.
And I am well aware of these secrets you mention, Trucker old chap, because I have no choice but to live in the adult world full time, eh? ;-)
No guarantee that you'd beat everyone.
No it wouldn't, but it would increase the chance that I would not be an easy target for bullies, and I tend to avoid conflicts rather than rush into them, thus further diminishing the chance I would be placed in a situation where I would have to defend myself that way.
And why risk education over being some dumbass badass that winds up getting kicked out of school for fighting too much and goes to YA to end being some gangbangers bitch or get stabbed to death or hanging yourself in prison?
See prior statement of mine, and also consider that I would only use those skills in self-defense. That is how I conduct myself as an adult, and I tend to be good at staying out of that sort of trouble. It's generally the bullies that do the "bad ass" thing.
Been there, seen that, you DO NOT want.
Which is why I have always, and would always, go out of my way to avoid ending up there.
Uh, what?
Ooops, sorry. Taftohebephilia is a sub-category of hebephile who experiences age dysphoria (not all hebephiles do). I have no problem wearing the proverbial shoe if it fits.
You take every disagreement as a personal attack. Not good.
I didn't take this one as a personal attack, did I? Now compare it to the ones I did consider personal attacks, especially the one where you gave me the faux label, and you will see why I reacted so differently to those two compared to how I reacted to this one.
Want some real attacks? Go to SA (Sexaholics Anonymous) meetings to try to convince everyone in there about the different labels of attraction as you mentioned. If you can convince those guys, then you've made real progress outside of this little community. Go to it.
Why go to a group who you seem to suggest are known for showing a particularly great antipathy towards labels? As you have seen in this thread by now, not everyone hates labels per se, but are only concerned in what manner they are used. That is the whole basis of this disagreement.